Category: Advice
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Advices of a 25 year old Adult
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Who let me become an adult? It feels like I was handed the title, and well, I have my things together, and I’m doing everything I’m supposed to do. It feels like I woke up one day, they said, “Oh, you’re an adult now, you’re doing all these adult things.”…
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December Monthly Reset | Calming down and Moving Forward
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I watched a lot of BL this month — like, enough that my watch history could qualify as a part-time job — but we’ll get to that later. First, let’s talk life, growth, chaos, clarity, and all the beautiful messiness November handed me. It’s for me to do a monthly…
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Life Lately: Locked in or Lockdown
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To all the “locked in” people… shhhhhhhhhhhh. Please. Stop being so loud about it. Some of us have been locked in since January — and honestly, even before that. At this point, I’m not trying to lock inanymore. I’m trying to lock down. And no, not like the government — too soon? Maybe.…
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The Break without the Breakdown
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Do you know that moment when you decided to take a break, without leaving primary responsibilities behind? This for example means still going to work and my home responsibilities are still conducted, but saying no to any church responsibilities that isn’t just attending church and attending every community event and…
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My Bucket List: 10 Dreams I’m Chasing
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Life feels like series of moments strung together, and each dream I chase is a spark that lights the path forward.
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My Career: My Biggest Accomplishment
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I grew up with two of the most loving parents a child could ask for. They had different parenting styles, but together they created a foundation that shaped me into who I am today. My mom was the type of woman who thought about all of us—her children—before she thought…
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Spend a weekend with me: 09/05 – 09/07
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Weekends are like little mini stories—plot twists, quiet chapters, and sometimes a cliffhanger or two. This weekend? It gave me a kava headache I’ll never sign up for again, a sunset yoga session that completely shifted my perspective, a spa night full of masks for every body part imaginable, and…
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August 2025 Writing Challenge 004: Life Lessons Learned
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At the moment, I am experiencing a period of growth. My focus is on developing myself and discovering ways to become a better person. It’s strange to realize that after 25 years, the most important lesson I’ve learned is to live life by applying all the knowledge I’ve gained to…
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Guilty Pleasures (Or Maybe Not)
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I love and hate the term “guilty pleasures.” Why guilty? They’re things you adore, sometimes so much you feel guilty about indulging, or worse, overindulging. Writing this list, I thought it’d be hard to come up with ten… but now I could probably write twenty.
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Why I Started This Blog (And Why I’m Still Writing)
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“From high school experiments to a full creative portfolio, my blog has become my space to share life, skills, and the in-between moments — no trends, just me.”