The Reflection

Hey Let’s Talk 

First and foremost, Happy Valentine’s Day, everyone

So, I recently went on a date that had all the potential to be something… but quickly, it became clear that it was not meant to be. Ever have that moment where the chemistry just isn’t there, and the connection feels more like a friendship than anything else?

That’s exactly how it felt. The person I was on the date with didn’t align with my values, and I knew deep down that I wouldn’t be able to compromise on that. As the date unfolded, I realized I was already aware of the outcome—this wasn’t going to go anywhere.

In that moment, I said a prayer:

“Lord, if this isn’t meant to be, let Your will be done.”

I truly meant it, but here’s where I’ll admit something: I took the cowards’ way out. I didn’t want to be upfront. I could feel that this relationship wasn’t going to work, but I wasn’t ready to speak those words out loud.

And now, here we are. Long story short—he hasn’t called since that date.

I guess the lesson here is that sometimes, it’s easier to stay silent than to face the truth. It’s one of those situations where you know what’s best, but the fear of being honest keeps you from acting on it.

So, here’s me sharing this with you, and learning to be more authentic in the future. Sometimes, it’s okay to walk away when you know things aren’t right.

Thanks for listening to my reflection. Let me know if you’ve ever had a similar experience in the comments, I’d love to hear your thoughts.

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